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A spastic bladder is a phrase given when there is interference with the nerve messages from the spinal cord to the neck of the bladder. Because your daughter will urinate in a diaper, then I suspect that the nerves do, indeed, work. She is consciously and/or deliberately exerting control over this bodily function. The whole concept of "control" may be one to step back and take a look at.